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How Peace-Making Creates Family Peace
  Peace-Making is a full service family law firm that helps restructure families using mediation, arbitration, collaboration and representation.

We avoid family warfare and create opportunities for fulfilling family relationships.

Through our help, process and classes, you can develop your best possibilities. For some, that means separation and divorce. For others, it means learning the skills that create a fulfilling relationship with an existing partner.

You have a fundamental choice: Separation and Divorce or Relationship Transformation. We help you harness your energy and skillfully find your own peace.

Some elements of Peace-Making:

Find your best possibility
Create peace now
Learn the skills that create fulfilling relationships
Divorce and learn the skills that protect children from divorce damage

Contact us today and learn how Peace-Making can help you in the most important areas of your life.



Relationship Transformation: training in Peace-Making and marital skills that infuses empathy, healing and mutual support into relationships.

Peace: the state that occurs when we remain within our compassionate nature, tending and fulfilling essential human needs; the tranquility and joy from a thriving life.

Peace-Making: the skills that focus on deepening insight, practicing love and creating a willing environment for mutually supportive decisions.

Separation: a time out from living together and having to deal with each other’s emotions daily.  It can be created within the same household, but the arrangements must be simple, separate and agreed upon.

Divorce: ends the relationship, or if you have children together, limits it to raising the children.

Divorce Mediation: a conversation structured by a mediator to help you safely say what needs to be heard, hear what has been said and make joint decisions that are mutually supportive.

Peace-Making Mediation: a unique process created by Peace-Making to resolve emotions; especially useful in creating working partnerships for co-parenting.

“Steven, you are great at the big picture.”

-D. Blastic


About Peace-Making

Peace-Making Mediation is a full service family law firm serving Metropolitan Portland, Oregon in Multnomah, Clackamas and Washington Counties with three core services:  Divorce Mediation, Relationship Transformation, and full legal representation.  Peace-Making Mediation resolves all marriage and family conflicts without warfare through Relationship Transformation, through Separation and Divorce Mediation and through representing only you in Collaborative Law, in Divorce Arbitration, in collaborative divorce settlements or in Divorce Trial Without War. 

We do this by resolving custody of children, custody decision making, co-parenting, co-parenting decision making, parenting plan and parenting time, transitional spousal support, compensatory spousal support and maintenance spousal support, valuation of property, separation of premarital property and inherited property from marital property and then division of marital property.  In Relationship Transformation, without marital counseling or marital therapy, we teach you relationship skills that resolve marital conflict, identify feelings, fulfill needs, create joint decisions that mutually support both spouses and each child and that create personal happiness and family joy.

Call us today for a free divorce mediation consultation or for a relationship transformation session at (503) 228-7256.

Oregon: 5745 NE Glisan Street, Portland, Oregon 97213

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